Woosh I cannot believe I'm no longer in my twenties - it was fun but where did all that time go ? Having worked hard, enjoyed the challenges and now able to make more choices I want to move on and do other things perhaps in other places; but certainly with someone new.

For the past 15 years I have fluctuated between hard work and hedonism. I enjoy new places and new experiences but there is also something to be said for the routine and the familiar. I need to settle down without becoming pedestrian.

I am a total culture vulture and travel continents for an exhibition as freely as I will avoid drivel at the Tate. I am a member of more galleries & musems outside the UK than here at home - but no I am not some precieous aesthetic. Pretentious ? Moi ? LOL

I need a woman who can help me find a new way and share whatever than means while I can become part of the life she choses.

I'm a balanced, relaxed guy who is perhaps more comfortable speaking before a crowd of a thousand than being one on one, but I'm trying to make the change. I'm reflective and yes, at times too serious but never moody and always reliable Honesty and integrity are very important to me so if I can't trust someone then I don't want to be with them.

I see nothing to loose in meeting for a coffee, a chat or a meal. I've had my share of nutters, stalkers and woman who have slept outside my bedroom window. It is all about balance and being moved with passion rather than destroyed by obsession.

I'm happy to take a risk. Are you?